Friday, October 30, 2009

illegal father and daughter marriages

One is shocked to know that a Muslim father in Iran cut off his 7-year-old daughter's head because he suspected that she had been raped by her uncle. The incident helps one understand on what grounds the Muslim girls are being murdered by her male family ... A year ago, on February 24, 2007, Pakistani police in Karachi arrested two men in a remote village in the southern Sindh province and accused them of killing two young women for allegedly having sex outside marriage. ...... without it we desist to exist." Is that why you think miscegenation should be illegal? Interesting, never thought of it that way. Posted by efs5r on October 29, 2009 at 9:45 AM. Comment by Baconcat on October 29, 2009 at 9:48 AM 16 ..... Do all of your children have the same father? Once you've answered these questions we will all know whether or not you're a hippocrate. Failure to answer these questions will be viewed as an admission that your ARE a hippocrate. ...In the Islamic Republic it is illegal to execute a young woman, regardless of her crime, if she is a virgin, he explained. Therefore a "wedding" ceremony is conducted the night before the execution: The young girl is forced to have .... Her second marriage was consummated and she is now three months pregnant. But the first husband still considers himself married to her, so he filed a lawsuit against the father and daughter. The judge annulled the marriage to the first ...July 27th, 2009 Prosecutor: Dad killed girl to avoid child supportLOS ANGELES a�� A prosecutor says a father murdered his 4-year-old daughter by throwing her off a cliff because he didn't want to pay child support. ... June 11th, 2009 Ohio man on trial in killing of wife 17 years agoTOLEDO, Ohio a�� A prosecutor in northern Ohio says a man accused of killing his wife and stuffing her body in a car trunk 17 years ago knew his marriage was coming to an end at the time the woman ...According to police, Chhote Lal, a farmer and resident of Chachha village, fixed the marriage of his daughter to Jaiveer of the same village for a sum of Rs.200000. Feds: 2 men charged in New York with $80 million ATM Ponzi scheme .... jluvisions California Father and Daughter Charged in $2.8 Million Securities Fraud Scheme; maxkennerly CEO Not Charged With Fraud But SEC Pursues Clawback Anyway; jluvisions Two Charged in United Nations Fraud Case; jluvisions Pennsylvania ...Perhaps it is the state being involved in marriage that is the real issue a�� without state involvement a marriage is neither legal nor illegal, and no one is bound by law to accept the validity of another's marriage. .... Extending the rule to the width asked for by the defendant, and we might have in Tennessee the father living with his daughter, the son with the mother, the brother with the sister, in lawful wedlock, because they had formed such relations in a State or ...If the father thinks his daughter is too westernized, then they should all go back to the middle east, why did they come here in the first place. I hope he serves a few years in jail, then he'll know how westernized this country really is. ... I just finished reviewing a�?Caged in America,a�? a book with a personal look into arranged (and illegal) marriages and the shocking treatment of females by their own family. Can you imagine selling your daughter into marriage at 13? ...Lief, you shouted out about the same-sex marriage issue because it could have opened the debate for advocates of father-daughter marriages, or man-sheep marriages. That was a discussion about the slippery slope of accepting one type of conduct that opens the door for arguing the acceptance of ... did ANYone learn anything from the prohibition debacle? alcohol is at least as bad as 95% of all the illegal drugs out there - alcohol kills brain cells on contact, does it not? ...SF board changes tack on immigrant minorsSAN FRANCISCO a�� This famously liberal city, known for tackling thorny issues from gay marriage to universal health care, is wrestling with another divisive issue. ... sought for 3 tied to border groupARIVACA, Ariz. a�� Prosecutors said Thursday they plan to seek the death penalty against the leader of an anti-illegal immigrant group and two others charged in an Arizona home invasion that left a 9-year-old girl and her father dead. ...MUZAFFARNAGAR: Leading Islamic seminary Darul Uloom Deoband has declared the marriage of a 37-year-old man with his teenaged daughter in West. Bengal as null and void and ruled that the girl's impregnation by her father will be treated as rape ... Stating that Islam prohibits such marriages, Darul Uloom Deoband in its ruling described the marriage as shameful and illegal according to the Shariat law. The ruling issued by the incharge of the Fatwa department of the Islamic ...
I am in a child custody dispute with my x-husband and my Fiance is illegal and he wants to adopt my daughter from my first marriage. I am close to asking my x-husband to give up all his parenting rights for my daughter. My daughter is only 7yrs old and she has not seen him since she was 4 yrs and she does not want to see him. She sees my Fiance like a father. Is it possible for him to take over or does he need to be legal in the US.


My marriage is coming to a bitter end. I'm not sure where to even start.
I gave my husband the keys to my car 4 days ago (yes the car is in my name only) because he needed it for the day for work. We got into a fight that day and he refused to give the car key back (my only copy). Then he said he would give it back when I gave him back my engagement ring. First of all, he made me wait until our 3rd wedding anniversary to give me the "engagement" ring so I was not happy when he asked for it back. He gave ME the ring and now he's bribing me with my keys until I give it back?! A day passed by and I told him if he continues to drive my car and not help me make the payments after I just lost my job then I am going to assume I have permission to use his debit card to make the payment. He said he didn't have to give the key back, as it is "joint property" so I said OKAY well if it is joint property and you are driving it around and not allowing me to, then you can help pay for it. I told him my plans before doing so and I even told the customer service rep that my name is not on the card and that it is my husband's card and she allowed the transaction so I assumed there is nothing illegal involved in it. Well, 4 days went by, He still has the key and is saying since I won't return the ring, he's going to have me arrested for Grand Larceny and put me in jail.
What should I do? He's simply using it against me for the ring!
I'm not giving the ring back because A) I wasted 3 years with the a-hole and think I deserve the damn thing and B) If he cannot help me financially like any other husband after his wife lost her job, then I will have to pawn it before my car ends up repo'd.

My next question is....
we live in the same house, however have not slept together or in the same bed in about 7 months. A few weeks ago he told me if I don't give him sex, he'll take it. He also took pictures of me with his cell phone without my knowledge while I was in the shower and while I was changing and refuses to delete them. He is always sexually harassing me and putting me down. My 5 year old daughter is from a previous relationship and he called her father and told him a bunch of lies.


What should I do? He's trying to ruin my life.

By the way... We're 23 & 24, live in Massachusetts and have a 2 year old son.


One of the interesting things about Barack Obama is that he is appealing to the black voters of America as a black man, yet he was raised by a single mother and her parents, who were white. (Before you correct me that the politically correct term is "African-American," allow me to point out that all black people in America are not necessarily African-American.)


In a well-researched article published in Time, Amanda Ripley explains, "In most elections, the deceased mother of a candidate in the primaries is not the subject of a magazine profile. But Ann Soetoro was not like most mothers."

She points out: "Each of us lives a life of contradictory truths. We are not one thing or another. Barack Obama's mother was at least a dozen things. S. Ann Soetoro was a teen mother who later got a Ph.D. in anthropology; a white woman from the Midwest who was more comfortable in Indonesia; a natural-born mother obsessed with her work; a romantic pragmatist, if such a thing is possible."

Barack Obama's mother was a very interesting woman, and, according to Ripley, he's very much his mother's son.

Obama's mother, Stanley Ann Dunham Obama Soetoro (she later spelled it Sutoro) was a white woman from the Midwest who married and divorced not one, but two, foreign men (one from Kenya and one from Indonesia, both Muslim). She met Barack Obama Sr. in a Russian-language class at the University of Hawaii, where both were students.

After one semester, at age 18 she dropped out of school and, three months pregnant, secretly married a man she met only a few months earlier. Young Barack was born August 4, 1961.

At that time, interracial marriages were illegal in many states, and bi-racial children were ostracized by both ethnic groups as not "belonging" to either.

When the infant Barack was not yet a year old, Obama Sr. left his new family for a Harvard scholarship to get a Ph.D. in economics. His plan was to take his new family and return to rebuild Kenya. He already had a wife there, although there was some question about the legality of the earlier marriage. Obama's mother decided she did not wish to go with him, and returned to her studies at the University of Hawaii. She graduated in four years while her parents helped care for her young son. In 1964, Ann filed for divorce from Obama Sr.

Like many Muslim men, Obama Sr. had multiple wives. It has been reported that Barack Jr. was distressed to learn that his six siblings, whom he met on a trip to Africa, had four different mothers. (Islam permits up to four wives at one time, and apparently polygamy is common in Africa.)



At the University of Hawaii, Ann met another international student, Lolo Soetoro, who proposed in 1967. Ann and young Barack followed him home to Indonesia. Daughter Maya was born in 1970. In 1971, when Barack was 10, Ann sent him back to Hawaii to live with her parents and attend an elite prep school on a scholarship arranged by Ann's mother, an executive at Bank of Hawaii. Obama lived with Ann's parents until he finished high school. Ann and Maya followed a year later. Ann once again enrolled in classes at the University of Hawaii. Although Lolo visited often, they never again lived together, and in 1980, Ann filed for divorce.

According to Ripley, Ann maintained a cordial relationship with her ex-husbands, staying in touch with both men. It is probably safe to say, however, that Barack Obama had very little actual influence from either man in his life. His father left before he was a year old, and he lived with his mother and her second husband in Indonesia for only four years, from age 6 to 10, before being shipped back to Hawaii for prep school.

This makes it even more remarkable that he has written a memoir titled, "Dreams From my Father." It has been reported that Ann read a draft of her son's book before her death in 1995. One has to wonder how disappointed she must have been to learn it was about a father who abandoned him as an infant, and not about the strong and pioneering women who raised him.

The book was first published in 1995, as he was campaigning for the Illinois Senate, and to capitalize on his new popularity, a new edition was published in 2004, after his keynote address to the Democratic National Convention.

Ann Dunham Obama Sutoro studied anthropology in Indonesia, and helped thousands of poor women find better lives for themselves and their families. She is credited with helping to create the microfinance program in Indonesia, "which she did from 1988 to '92 a��- before the practice of granting tiny loans to credit-poor entrepreneurs was an established success story.

Her anthropological research into how real people worked helped inform the policies set by the Bank Rakyat Indonesia, says [her friend] Patten, an economist who worked there. 'I would say her work had a lot to do with the success of the program,' he sa


Would do you think of this man? His daughter was born outside the marriage in California. When she was two years old her mother moved to New York, where she was from. She did not have his consent, but was not illegal. Because he took legal action with in six months in California, the child was given to her father in California, because her mother wanted to stay in New York. He took his lawyers advice to not take her to New York so she can visit her mother until he got her mother paternal rights terminated for abandoning her (for legal purposes). This accrued when she just turned six years old. He than took her to visit her mother in New York for the first time, and will continue to do so every year.


While watching a movie, the audience also learns about the background information of the time in which that movie was set. The quality of the background information may tell the audience a lot about the times the movie was set in were like, or sometimes may tell them very little about it. The movie, Shakespeare In Love, gives the audience a lot of quality information about the nature of society, the theatre and Shakespearea��s contemporaries during the Elizabethan time era.

Shakespeare In Love informs the audience of the different parts of society during the Elizabethan Era. Women and men were treated unequally in many ways: men were allowed to select their spouses whereas women were not just as, women were not allowed to act in a play and men had more freedom to go out with their friends. Moreover, marriages were arranged and used by men in order to gain money a�� fathers would a�?buya�� a suitable similar-class man for their daughter. The idea of a�?buyinga�� is shown when Violaa��s father promised Lord Wessex money if he married his daughter. Also, someone from a higher-class could not marry someone from a lower-class and vice-versa a�� the reason why Shakespeare could not ask the Queen if he could marry Viola. Furthermore, for transportation, people of that time usually walked, while the people of the higher class travelled in horses and carriages. Boats were also used for getting across the water. Lastly, there were many pieces of a�?technologya�� that people used at that time. Boats, night lamps (with candles), quill pens, ink, paper, carriages, a�?fireworksa�� and the paintbrush-like toothbrush were the technological developments of that time as shown in the movie. In conclusion, the audience can learn a great deal of information about society was like during Shakespearea��s time and also about the Elizabethan Theatre.

Shakespeare In Love also educates the audience about the Elizabethan Theatre which was a really good source of entertainment for the audience of the theatre. It provided great tragedies, comedies and romances with suspense and spectacular twists for the audience. The audience would look forward to a play with great expectations for it. Furthermore, the audience of the Elizabethan Theatre ranged from the high class to the low class, from common low-class people to the nobles and the Royal family. The Queen and the royal family would have their own play in the theatre, but they also sometimes went to the same play as everyone else. At this time, the Royal family would sit on the upper part of the theatre while the lower class commoners would stand up on the lower part of the theatre in a crowded environment. Moreover, the performers of the theatre were all male since it was illegal for women to be a part of a play. The male performers would dress-up as a female if a female character was involved. There were only two reasons for a theatre to be closed: if a plague struck the city or if rules were broken by the theatre. For example, when it was found out that Viola was acting in a�?The Rosea�? theatre as Thomas Kent, it was closed. To conclude, Shakespeare In Love teaches the audience a lot about the Elizabethan Era and also about Shakespearea��s contemporaries.

Shakespeare In Love provides information on various contemporaries of Shakespeare to the audience. Shakespeare had many types of contemporaries: writers, non-writers and actors. Shakespeare had only one contemporary who was a writer: Christopher Marlowe, also known as Kit Marlowe. Kit Marlowe was more famous and popular than Will. His plays were often more successful than Shakespearea��s and he also wrote more plays than Shakespeare. Writers, such as Shakespeare or Marlowe, usually had a woman (or women) whom they relied upon for their inspiration to write great comedies and tragedies. Without them, a writer doesna��t feel like writing and does not write. In the beginning of the movie, Shakespeare does not feel like writing his story a�?Romeo and Ethel, the Piratea��s Daughter.a�? However, after finding Viola, he was inspired and started to write the story. There were many non-writer contemporaries of Shakespeare: Richard Burbage, Philip Henslowe and the Queen. Richard Burbage was an owner and a director of a�?The Curtaina�? theatre and he bought many of Kit Marlowea��s and Shakespearea��s plays. Philip Henslowe was the manager of the Rose Theatre and a good friend of Shakespeare. The Queen was a much respected woman. She had a lot of power and was considered the central figure in the Royal family. Ned was an actor and a contemporary of Shakespeare. He was the lead actor of the Admirala��s Men, acting company of a�?The Rose,a�? and had the leading role in many plays.

Can somebody also edit this essay please?
and How should I end it off?


When I left him, I took my daughter with me. We havent been to court for custody agreements. If I allowed him to take her for visits with him and he ended up not bringing her back then would that be considered kidnapping? Or if I allowed my mother to take me daughter to visit her father (my mother is on my husbands side) and had her agree to bring my daughter back a certain day and time, and my mother didnt return her to me...is that considered kidnapping? Important fact...my husband is also an illegal alien, is there any way that he could get custody of my child? I'm actually not even sure if we are actually LEGALLY married. We did recieve a marriage liscense, but when asked for his social security number and he said that he didnt have one, they simply used 999-999-9999 as his number. Help me people! I need lots of answers! Thanx!


a�?Men have authority over women because God has made the one superior to the other, and because men spend their wealth to maintain them. Good women are obedient. They guard their unseen parts because God has guarded them. As for those among you who fear disobedience, admonish them and send them to beds apart and beat them.a�? Sura 4:34

Girls as young as nine can be married off by their father even if the mother disapproves of the marriage, often they end up as second or third wives of much older men - here is a way to instantly eradicate illegal paedophilia! Conservative clerics have resisted moves to raise the minimum age for girls.

In Muslim countries, men have the power of life and death over their women. Honour- killers usually escape punishment and the ones that are tried and convicted, receive only a few months in prison where they are treated like heroes by other inmates. Honour killings are carried out by men against women in their family for disobedience or suspected sexual transgressions. Even women who have been raped are killed for defiling the family honour.

In countries governed by the Shari'a a woman's testimony is worth only half of that of a man's. In Pakistan since Islamisation, rape victims are charged with a�?zinaa�? - sex outside marriage - and are sent to prison.

Some Muslims believe that Islam mandates female genital mutilation and they continue its practice in order to ensure that their daughters will remain chaste until marriage. The doctrine of a�?chastity equals goodnessa�? is nothing more than a device designed to control women's sexuality and to reduce women into objects a�?newa�? and a�?used!a�? Sounds familiar? In the US, Christian fundamentalists have embarked on a a�?chastity and family valuesa�? crusade in order to curb women's sexual freedom and autonomy.

In Muslim societies religion governs all aspects of life and has priority over secular laws and local customs, therefore, the excuse that tradition alone is responsible for women's oppression is untenable. Unless Muslim apologists are prepared to back their claims by a campaign to reform their religion and improve the situation of women, their assertions that Islam is blameless in oppressing women, are null and void.

Should respecting other cultures mean that we should turn a blind eye to sadism, torture and brutality?

How long I wonder, will the world continue to tolerate the gender apartheid in the Islamic world and still persist in calling itself civilised?
To be married off at age nine is to be essentially sold to the groom. To marry off a nine year old is essentially treating her as a slave.


1. If time doesn't wait for you, don't worry! Just remove the damn battery from the clock and Enjoy life!

2. Expecting the world to treat u fairly coz u r a good person is like expecting the lion not to attack u coz u r a vegetarian. Think about it.

3. Beauty isn't measured by outer appearance and what clothes we wear, but what we are inside .. So, try going out naked tomorrow and see the admiration!

4. Don't walk as if you rule the world, walk as if you don't care who rules the world! That's called Attitudea��! Keep on rocking!

5. Every lady hopes that her daughter will marry a better man than she did and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as his father did!!!

6. He was a good man. He never smoked, drank had no affair. When he died, the insurance company refused the claim. They said, he who never lived, cannot die!

7. A man threw his wife in a pond of Crocodiles? He's now being harassed by the Animal Rights Activists for being cruel to the Crocodiles!

8. So many options for suicide: Poison, sleeping pills, hanging, jumping from a building, lying on train tracks, but some chose Marriage, slow sure!

9. Only 20 percent men have brains, rest have women!

10. All desirable things in life are either illegal, banned, expensive or married to someone else!

11. Laziness is our biggest enemy- Jawaharlal Nehru

We should learn to love our enemies- Mahatma Gandhi Ab aap bataaye kiski sune bapu di ya chacha di??? (which one you choose?)

12. 10% of road accidents are due to drunken driving. Which makes it a logical statement that 90% of accidents are due to driving without drinking!


So, I have been dating Tony for 2 and a half years. We are both young, but he is 2 years younger than me. I am 19 he is 17. We just had a baby in March which complicated things greatly, as we all know will happen with a child. My first problem is his lack of communication. He listens to me when I vent and he listens when I yell, but he never says anything back. I have tried telling him that one way conversations don't work well, but he won't even try. I know he has to be really stressed with a 10 month old around, but he doesn't talk about it. I think this could be normal for a guy, but none of the other relationships I have been in have been this way.

My second problem is that he won't get a job! He dropped out of school when I had the baby. I was completely against it, I am still in school. I am a sophomore in college. But the way I see it is since he won't go to school he should be working. That is fair right? We live with my mom still and have since about the time we met. (His homelife was horrible) My mom is starting to get really annoyed with him because he won't get a job. He has put in applications for jobs (only to shut me up though) but has never even gotten an interview. I am really stressed out because we need the money to pay our bills. We have to pay for a new car because he wrecked my old one. :-( And babies are expensive (surprise surprise) What can I do to make him man up and work like a father should??? My mom is going to kick him out in 3 weeks when he turns 18 if he doesn't have a job!

My third problem is he won't even talk about marriage. I bring it up and he changes the subject. I don't want to get married right away. I would like to get married after I finish school. I think that is very reasonable! But he won't even talk about it!! It makes me feel like he may not want to be with me forever. Which hurts because we have a daughter together, ya know? I know that not everybody with kids have to get married because sometimes it just won't work. I love this guy soo much, he treats me really good. (besides these things) I just want some advise. Plz no rude comments on him being too young and it being illegal or any other BS. When we got together I was 17 and had no idea it would last this long or turn out this way.


I'm just SO hurt. SOOOO hurt!

OK. I have to try to make a long story short. My biological mom abused & neglected us @ birth, so we got taken away by the time we were 5 mos. Been with same FOSTER family since then until age 20. Foster family no less abusive.

We're African American also mixed with Louisiana Creoles (IF & ONLY if the man named on my birth certificate is my biological father). But anyway, My bio mom had 9 kids, & only supposedly 3 or 5 of us are his.

12 yrs. ago, I was in 8th grade, & 1 of my 5 brothers told me that me & my twin sister don't have the same dad as him because we're not light-skinned. Our complexion is brown. The man named on our birth certificate is the same man that our mom has been married to for many yrs. This brother & other siblings described our so-called REAL father to be grotesque-looking & in a wheelchair with BIG eyes, brown skin, & crusty-nappy hair (they said that). Me & my twin sister have a smooth brown complexion with silky, thick, wavy hair. We have high cheekbones & people mistake us for being mixed with Asian. We have slanted eyes, just like my mom's husband (man on birth certificate). He's French & Native American Indian with straight, silky hair, an olive complexion like a Chinese person, & when he fought in the Vietnam war, they mistook him for the Vietnamese people. He was 32, & my mom was 15 when they got together. She was like 35, & he was 52 when they had us. Our mom is brown-skinned with crusty nappy hair & big, bubbly eyes that look like they're about to pop out of the socket. But she has hazel/light brown, BEAUTIFUL eyes. We have dark brown eyes. I can't tell my supposed dad's eye color because he's so old that you can't tell, but they're sort of bluish. He's 77 now.

Many people say that if you don't have a father (whether he's deceased or you don't know who he is), then that makes you a bastard. I don't want to feel like a bastard. My mom is schizophrenic, & 1/2 of us 9 kids follow her delusions like it's a religion or something. I'm 1 of them who doesn't.

My mom's husband (man on our birth certificate) has daughters for another woman, before our mom, & they're brown-skinned.

The family makes up too many rumors, & I'm tired of it. There's a rumor that us brown & dark-skinned kids are color-struck & jealous of the light-skinned kids, which is NOT the case.

With me, I don't care about the skin color. I just need to know who my father REALLY is. We DO look 1/2-way like the man on our birth certificate. Why can't we be his children & take after our mom's complexion, like our other 1/2 sister from previous marriage did?

I'm confused about who my real father is, & I'm frustrated, angry, & sad.

Bad enough, we had a hard childhood in the foster home, being abused & tortured, & the foster mom adopted her cousin's daughter. So, that daughter ran around school, telling everyone that we don't know who our real parents are. Me & my twin sister got tired of that being thrown in our faces. Kids saying, "@ least I know who my REAL mama is!"

& the foster mom kept throwing in my face, "I should've left you nasty, filthy, dirty babies where I found y'all. Y'all were so nasty & dirty that the SOCIAL WORKERS were afraid to touch y'all!"

I didn't get to see my real mom until I turned 18, & the social worker & foster mom got angry & tried to say we "ran away". How, & I was a legal adult, attending college?

If the man named on our birth certificate is NOT my real father, then why am I getting Social Security Survivor's benefits & medicare off of him? Wouldn't that be illegal if I'm not his real child?

I don't want to appear to be doing anything illegal. We were told all throughout foster care (same family for about 20 yrs.) that "both" parents on birth certificate are our real parents.

Now, so many mixed up stories. I wish I could get a DNA test, but the WHOLE family would start tripping. I'm tired of them falsely accusing me of being color-struck, when I'm truly NOT. If the man on our birth certificate is really our dad, then I have no control over him being light-skinned. My mom chose him. Not us.

Me & 1 of my brothers just had a discussion about the "daddy" subject. THEY always tease me & rub it in my face about the man not being me & my twin sister's daddy.

Also, my birth mom is SO delusional that she's trying to make it like everything typed on our birth certificate is WRONG. How could federal documents make the same mistake twice?

I was born Aug. 25, 1983 @ 10:23 PM, & my twin sister was born 13 min. later. The certificate says we're identical, & so did foster family & social workers. Birth mom wants to say we're fraternal, & that our b-day is on the 24th, & not the 25th. She's saying that to try to be funny because it was our 18th b-day. Aug. 25, 2001 when my fav. singer Aaliyah died in a plane crash.

& they just don't want our b-day to be associated with her death. We can't help if the singer died ON our
She's saying that to try to be funny because it was our 18th b-day. Aug. 25, 2001 when my fav. singer Aaliyah died in a plane crash.

& they just don't want our b-day to be associated with her death. We can't help if the singer died ON our b-day.

As I said, my mom is delusional. She's 60 yrs. old & starts rumors about her own kids, just to get us to hate each other. She wants to get the light-skinned kids to have war with the darker-skinned kids, like me. Now, I'm 25 with a college degree. These rumors hurt me, & I feel like it's unfair that people are calling me immature for wanting to know the true facts of my life.

I haven't seen my birth mom UNTIL age 18. Not even any photos! Foster & birth mom have been beefing with (hating) each other for yrs. So, the foster mom said our bio mom's rights were taken away from us when we were 2 yrs. old. I don't remember that, @ 2 yrs. old. So, quite naturally, if you're a foster/adopted child, & basically never or don't remember seeing your real
So, quite naturally, if you're a foster/adopted child, & basically never or don't remember seeing your real family, wouldn't it be normal to have LOTS of questions to ask & be very curious?

I'm very sad right now, & I feel like crying. My details were longer than I anticipated. Sorry about that, but please help me. Give me some advice & REASSURE me that there's nothing wrong with me wanting to know who my real father is.


My friend is now divorced from the father of 4 of her 5 children. He has now gained the right to live in the house and can legally kick her out if he wants. He has moved back in even though his ex-wife and his own children do not want him to. He has a history of drinking and has a violent temper. Her daughters from the marriage are 13, 10, 8, and 6. Her daughter from a previous marriage is 20 and lives with her mother and helps take care of the kids while the mother looks for work and does odd jobs. He has started walking around the house in the morning naked. The 13 year old has seen him do this as well as the mother. My question is, does she have any legal options with concern to him exposing himself to minors. They are his children but they are not babies and do not want to see him naked. Any help would be greatly appreciated.


This issue has been going on for the longest time. But frankly, it has really hit a high note ever since the vote to pass Proposition 8 in California passed. I've browsed Answers and time and again, I see gays saying over and over, "We're not hurting anyone!" or "Stop the hate!". So many words get lobbed back and forth and it doesn't seem to end. So I'm going to give you a list of just why gay marriage is wrong and why it should be kept illegal and/or unrecognized by the US government. This pretty much sums it up for why gay marriage is wrong. If this doesn't open some eyes, I don't know what will:

1. Homosexuals are seeking a SPECIAL right. They already have the same right to marry as the rest of us have---->the right to marry a person of the OPPOSITE sex. Limiting marriage to one man and one woman doesn't discriminate on the basis of sex or sexual orientation.

2. It denies the self-evident truth of nature that male and female bodies are designed for and complement each other. Opposite-sex marriage is the natural God-designed means by which the human race reproduces.

3. Granting same-sex couples a license to marry will not create a true marriage. Neither two men nor two women can become one flesh in the eyes of God. Licensing the unnatural does not make it natural. It would be a state-sanctioned counterfeit, a sham, and a fraud. A licensed electrician cannot produce power by taping two same-sex plugs together. Homosexual sex is dangerous and destructive to the human body and powerless for human reproduction.

4. Homosexual marriage will always, you hear me, ALWAYS be an abomination to God regardless of whether a clergyman performs the ceremony or not. When God calls something unholy, man cannot make it holy or bless it.

5. Homosexual marriage is as wrong as giving a man a license to marry his mother or daughter or sister or a group.

6. Homosexual marriage will harm children by denying them the love and nurture of a mom AND a dad. The only "procreation" homosexuals can engage in requires that a third party must be brought into the relationship. Gays insist that it doesn't hurt anyone. But who it hurts the most is the children! By raising children up in such an environment, it offsets the balance that a mother and a father provide. This in turn leads them to believe that it is normal for a guy to like another guy. This in turn will lead to ridicule as they progress in life.

7. Granting a marriage license to homosexuals because they engage in sex is as illogical as granting a medical license to a barber because he wears a white coat, or a law license to a salesman because he carries a briefcase. Real doctors, lawyers and the public would suffer as a result of licensing the unqualified and granting them rights, benefits and responsibilities as if they were qualified.

8. Homosexual marriage will DEVALUE your marriage. A license to marry is a legal document by which government will treat same-sex marriage as if it were equal to the real thing. A license speaks for the government and will tell society that government says the marriages are equal. Any time a lesser thing is made equal to a greater, the greater is devalued. For example:

A. If the Smithsonian Museum displays a hunk of polished blue glass next to the Hope Diamond with a sign that says, "These are of equal value," and treats them as if they were, the Hope Diamond is devalued in the public's eye. The government says it's just expensive blue glass. The history and mystery are lost too. Get it?

B. If an employer uses a robot as an employee and treats the robot the same way it treats human employees, human employees are devalued. By doing so, the employer says, "A robot can do your job, you're no better." What will you and the public think of your job and you?

C. If the government issues a license to babysitters that grants them the same rights, protections and responsibilities as a child's parents, parenthood is devalued. The government is basically saying that parents are just babysitters.

D. If government grants professional licenses to just anybody, every profession and qualified professional is devalued. The government would be saying that an uneducated panhandler can do brain surgery.

9. The assumption by many is that marriage is just two people with a license who have sex and wear rings. Homosexuals do that, why not give them the license? Because engaging in sex doesn't equal marriage. Adults involved in incest have sex too; should government call it marriage and license them? Certainly NOT!

The biggest problem we have in getting people, especially younger ones, to understand why marriage is devalued by the existence of a counterfeit is that much of the public does not value marriage at all these days. Adultery is no big deal (sarcasm). Divorce is tolerated because so many married couples can't hold true to their vows. Absentee fathers and mothers devalue marriage. Unmarried pregnancies are common. F
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Fornication is "normal." When we make the case against homosexual marriage, we need to speak against these other problems that devalue marriage as well. As we acknowledge these problems we can emphasize that legalizing homosexual marriage will compound the problems, not solve or lessen them.

So yeah, it IS my right and every other opponent of gay marriage's right to fight for the sanctity of what marriage truly is. Most homosexuals feign ignorance that God loves all. But it is clearly stated in the bible that God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.


my 13 yr old daughters father, we never married, recently married a chinese woman he dated for 10 years, after 3 months of marriage she has now declared that his daughter is no longer welcome in their home, as she wants to start her new marriage off fresh and because his daughter was born out of wedlock, by chinese tradition she is not welcome, even though she has known the child most of her life..
anyone chinese out there who ever heard of this BS. or any family law people who know his rights, seems to me to be illegal since he has legal shared custody and that is his primary residence..


As , i am mentioning about the agriculture property which is earned by my great grand fathers,as my great grandfather has 2 sons and my grandfather was younger and they have partitioned in 1980 ,and my grandfather has other woman who has married illegally and stayed with her .My grandmother has 4 daughters and 1 son and and never cared about them and my grandfathers brother has brought them up and made all marriages as head of the family and my grandfather was a govt employee and after the partition my father has done the agriculture
and my father was passed away in an accident in 1998 and then i was the eldest of my family we are 2 brothers and 1 daughter and till now we are doing that agriculture as we are on occupiance and even my grandmother has also passed away after my father and now in 2008 my grandfather and my parental aunties has made the revenue officals corrupted by giving ransom where they changed the revenue records and they filed a case against us in Revenue divisional Office as we hold all the "PATTA PASS BOOKS" and my grandfather has made gift registrations to his daughters with out the pass books "entitled patta pass books" with out our notice where his daughter are married before 1980's with All gifts "Dowry" ,as my father has worked hard by paying all debt's where in my grandfather neither even cared about the family as my father took all responsibilities of the family and cared about family prestige and after him i was the eldest sons who took the responsibilites.And now after 28 yrs my grandfather and parental aunties wants to take the advantage of the law which is injustice to us are making a big problems to us as in my village the people are revolting this only in the law " they are claiming that My grandfather has given the gift registrations with out our concerns as we all are majors " and legal heirs.As all my parental aunties are given ransom amount at the time of there marriages even there daughters and sons are also married they grand daughter's are of age "19" now they are claiming this .What action should i take to prevent this type of situation,Is there any Law to protect Us from this situation ? Are Illegal children born to my grandFather are entitled in this property ? We belong to Andhra Pradesh. it would be very helpfulfor Ur suggestions.


Hello, I'm Arab/american and i was raised as a muslim. Ever since I was young my dream was to finish school and marry when I was much older. I wanted so badly to be different from my family.. (getting married young... having children like rabbits every 9 months.. no education.. living as a slave in a house) I lived my life in a bubble only socializing with arabs who were all my family. I wasn't allowed to do things kids my age did. I never went out to the movies with a friend.. i never went to a mall by myself, i wasnt allowed to wear certain things. At the age of 18 i was arranged to marry a much older guy who never traveled to the states and didnt speak any english, he was my 2nd cousin, my dads first cousin. I was miserable, i expressed myself to my grandparents and family and they explained to me that I'm old and I need to hurry up and get married because its going to make the family look bad and it will look like im no longer a virgin. The same week they introduced me to the guy we got married legally to do his papers to travel but we did not have any marriage rights to be together since we did not have a traditional wedding.. the wedding was suppose to take place a year later in the summer which was going to give him enough time to receive his visa to travel. I left my fathers country with my father 3 weeks after i met the guy. We went back to the states. That week, something i never imaged happened. I met a Hispanic man. He was tall.. handsom.. smart.. everything about him caught my eye.. he approached me.. and we started talking... He's asked for my number.. I gave him the number to the phone my family did'nt know about.. my cousins and I chipped in to pay the bill every month. He called 2 days after.. I was in my room and I was so scared.. I didnt want my family to hear me talking.. i Hid in the bathroom and talked to him.. I felt so comfortable talking to him.. i told him about my marriage and my family..
My father that month was picked up by immigration-Happy moment in my life.. I do love my father but because of this I was able to meet my lover and learn more. My father was released from immigration 4 1/2 months later. I was happy he was released but part of me was dissapointed. I still managed to meet my lover while my dad went to open his businesses and worked.

The wedding with the arab guy was postponed since his visa wasnt approved.. My lover was going crazy .. i tried running away with him while my dad was in immigration but i went home a day later out of fear and that incident has been kept a secret between my mom, my aunt, and I. I had so much fear in me.. i didnt know what my family would do if i told them i was with a spanish man. I use to fight with my father's family about the wedding and how much I didnt want to get married.. my lover was getting desperate.. i was getting desperate..
This year (2 1/2 years later) in January. I packed what i could i left the country to be with my lover. He was deported for being illegal in the states.. my mother was the one who reported him when i first left with him.

Its been 9 months... my family has shamed me.. i am not allowed to speak to my brothers.. my cousins.. etc. My father has written in the newspaper in his country that he no longer has a daughter. Its been really hard for me. What is hardest for me is that my dream is not happening. This isnt how I expected life to be. I knew it would be a cultural shock... i adapted to that.. i have adapted to the language.. to the people.. etc. I love him.. I love him with all my heart and can't bear to think of another man to be with but I am no longer happy. I feel lost.. i feel empty.. I have nothing.. i have no one but him.

Now another problem has added to this. He has a son. He told me about his son the first day he met me. So, I was fully aware of that. He and his sons mother were over when the boy was a couple of months old. His son with be turning 4 years old in January. He just found out 2 days ago that his son will come to the country to live with him and me since his mom can't take care of him. He is excited and so happy. He keeps telling me he can't wait to see his son with me.. and that now I'm going to be a mommy.. etc.

I dont know what to do anymore.. i feel lost.. My "lover" is to comfortable where he is right now.. he's not motivated to do better.. he does'nt try to look for a job.. We are living in his grandpa's house alone.. we bought a car. I feel like I'm doing this all on my own. This isnt the life I wanted. This is my dream. The money I make goes straight to the bills.. and now his son is going to live with us. I have been feeling unhappy for about 5 months now.. There is nothing for me here. I question everyday how my life was and how it would have been if i married the arab who i was arranged to. Was it so bad? Did my family really know whats best for me? Was all this worth it?.. I have nothing now.. i have n


My husband and I have been married for 2 yrs, been together for 3, we have a 2 y/o girl, and we fight constantly. We have from about after 3months of being together. We met at a bar, and just got drunk together a lot, then I started getting sick, then pregnant. 2 months after we started dating, I was raped by someone and hospitalized, he was right there for me...he always has been. I found out after my awful horrible painful pregnancy I had fibromyalgia and I've been in pain 24 hours/day since. I am on tons of meds for pain, for PTSD, for anxiety, depression, you name it. I have hated sex since what happened. I found out I was preggos 4 months after being together, but was wanting to end the relationship right b4 I found out about the pregnancy. (This is our first child, who was a miracle, b/c I was tested and had many surgeries and was never supposed to get pregnant, and he got me pregnant.) I thought this was a sign that this was the man I was supposed to be with from then on. We fought my whole pregnancy and it's only gotten worse. His temper was horrrrible and he would push me and he's hit me a few times, never in the face. But anyway, I'm a bitch, I'm hard to get a long with. I have hated pretty much everything in life since I got fibromyalgia. I still do a lot, (FT student, stay at home mom, head a donation organization, editor of college newspaper, student governement, etc.) Life isn't THAT bad, but it is at home. I used to go thru "phases" of no sex and being just angry at everything, taking my frustrations out on him, then I would get into another "phase" and want sex all the time andlove him and want him always....I no longer have phases, I just don't want anything to do with him, sexually or intimately in any way. I don't want to go to bed at the same time, so I don't have to deal with him wanting sex. I've started "doping" myself up more so if I do give him what he wants, I don't feel AS disgusted. We had sex a few days ago and I wanted to vomit the whole time. I felt invaded and disgusted. Everyone on my family thought I was on drugs (illegal) b/c of my lack of affection to him. He hit me in the back, while he was holding our daughter (not the first time) a few weeks ago, and that's when I started literally hating him.

On the other hand, he loves me to death, can't live without me, and all that jazz. I'm a goddess to him he says. He's never been with anyone more beautiful, etc. He walks around moping and/or crying (literally) crying all the time. "Why don't you love me?" He cries more than anyone I've ever met (for a guy.) When he fights he, w/o thinking, always fights in front of Addy, w/o a thought. She's gotten so scared she runs crying to me.

I show no emotion when he's crying and acting that way. It gets on my nerves and I think it's very "unmanly." I do love him, as the father of our daughter, but that's it.

But i did marry him through thick and thin, no matter what, so will this pass? Is this just a phase? I have no feelings for other men, women, nothing, so I know the touching, sex, etc, thing is something I need to deal with on my own, which I am seeing a psychologist. He's not. She recommends we don't do marital b/c I just want out and he is begging for his family back.

There is so much more, but what do I do? I'm so unhappy, he is too, that's why I don't understand why he says I love you and he really means it. I don't. I say it back, with this almost disgsted feeling. Like I'm lying about it and it sucks.

OMG I am so confused. He has always been there for me. But he's not what I want to spend the rest of my life with. We got married in my 8th month of pregnancy and as this being my 2nd marriage(7 years after the first.), I said I would stay with him no matter what b/c that's what marriage is for.

I just don't know what to do. I'm going insane here, and so is he.





Okay. My boyfriend, also my 16 month old daughter's father, is in jail on a Midemeanor Battery charge. His bail was set very high, $150,000, which is ridiculous for the charge he got. But immigration is "holding" his bail, so once he is released, they can deport him back to Mexico. Now I know everyone is going to give me crap about this, but I fell in love with someone who happened to be illegal, I'm sorry, and I don't want him taken from me, or his daughter for that matter. Yes, he should have gotten citizenship, I understand this, but telling me this now isn't going to help, and I am only looking for help.

The only way to stop this deportation would to be to marry him. But supposedly the person he marries has to be 18. I am 17 I will be 18 in 4 months, which doesn't help, but my mom is willing to give permission to marry him. So do I TRULY have to be 18, even though she is giving permission? I know I can marry him, but do I have to be 18 to stop the deportation for some reason??
No, he did not commit anything wild, and yes it is only a misdemeanor, like some INTELLIGENT people have said, it is because he is at flight risk.

Secondly, none of you know anything further than the information i have given you, and none of it is enough for you to claim i am irresponsible, stupid for having a child, or any of these things. i already have my diploma, and am actively working towards being an LPN [yes i am in college]. i am not, thank you, a welfare leech, because i am not on wic, medicaid, food stamps or any of these other things you claim i am on. you do not know me, nor do you have sufficient information to tell me who i am, what i have done in the past, and what i should do.

i asked for help, and clearly many of you who are OLDER and SHOULD be more mature than i am, are very ignorant. i am asking for help, not for someone who does not know me to attack me, or attempt to put me down.
if god can love an illegal alien, i dont understand why its wrong for me to.


THIS MAKES SENSE





1. If time doesn't wait for you, don't worry!

Just remove the damn battery from the clock and Enjoy life!





2. Expecting the world to treat u fairly coz you are a good person is like

expecting the lion not to attack u coz you are a vegetarian.



Think about it.





3. Beauty isn't measured by outer appearance and what clothes we wear,

but what we are inside



So, try going out naked tomorrow and see the admiration!



4. Don't walk as if you rule the world,

walk as if you don't care who rules the world!



That's called Attitudea��! Keep on rocking!





5. Every lady hopes

that her daughter will marry a better man than she did

and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as his father did!!!







6. He was a good man. He never smoked, drank had no affair.

When he died, the insurance company refused the claim.

They said



He who never lived, cannot die!







7. A man threw his wife in a pond of Crocodiles?

He's now being harassed by the Animal Rights Activists for being cruel to the Crocodiles!







8. So many options for suicide:

Poison, sleeping pills, hanging,

jumping from a building, lying on train tracks,



but a lot chose Marriage, slow & sure!







9. Only 20 percent men have brains, rest have wives !





10. All desirable things in life are either

illegal, banned, expensive or married to someone else!







11. Laziness is our biggest enemy- Mahatma Gandhi

We should learn to love our enemies- Nelson Mandela



Now whom should we listen to ???







12. 10% of road accidents are due to drunken driving.

Which makes it a logical statement that

90% of accidents are due to driving without drinking!!!! !


Quoted from The West Australian Newspaper


The many wives of John Ernest Deaves are not the only people shocked by his fathering girls with his oldest daughter.

The 61-year-old disability pensioner with a bad back, diabetes, depression, mild heart disease, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and a number of convictions doesna��t appear much of a stud.

But the one-time armed robber had a slew of wives before he ditched number three in 2000, for a�?fantastica�? sex with his oldest daughter, Jennifer Anne Deaves, 39.

The couple revealed their passion for each other on the Nine Networka��s 60 Minutes program last Sunday, saying they were just asking for some respect and understanding.

They met as adults - having rarely seen each after Jennya��s mother divorced him while Jenny was three, and Deaves was in jail.

Jenny said she quickly realised she saw Deaves as a man first and a father second.

a�?I was looking at him, sort of going, a��Oh, hea��s not too bada��,a�? she told the Nine Network.

a�?Like you might look at a man across the bar at a nightclub.

a�?John and I are in this relationship as consenting adults.

a�?We are normal, intellectual adults who have fallen in love with each other.a�?

Deaves admitted he a�?initiallya�? thought having sex with his daughter was wrong, but a�?emotions took overa�?.

a�?I realised she was a beautiful, desirable woman,a�? Deaves said.

a�?I knew it was illegal, of course I knew, but you know, so what.a�?

The sex was a�?fantastic, absolutely fantastica�?, he added.

John and Jenny have had two daughters together.

The first died just days after birth in 2001 of congenital heart disease.

Their second, Celeste, is a healthy baby who was born in May 2007.

They now live in Mt Gambier in South Australiaa��s south-east with Celeste and Jennya��s two children from her former marriage.

But they are no longer having sex.

They cana��t.

Police caught up with them and they were placed on three-year good behaviour bonds last month after pleading guilty in the District Court in Mt Gambier to two counts of incest.

Sentencing Judge Steven Millsteed said while their relationship was consensual, incest could harm the children.

a�?You say that although you are father and daughter, that you were virtually strangers when your relationship commenced and that the relationship was based on mutual love and respect,a�? he said.

a�?(But) the offence of incest exists not merely to protect children from sexual abuse.

a�?Other relevant factors include: the need to prevent the high risk of congenital defects of children born of incestuous relationships.

a�?And to prevent children, who are brought up in a family unit founded on an incestuous relationship, suffering psychological harm and social stigmatisation. Those factors assume significance in this case.a�?

After divorcing Jennya��s mother, Deaves married again, had a second daughter, divorced, and in 1984 he married Dorothy - the woman he dumped for his daughter.

Now living alone at their SA wildlife sanctuary, Rootopia, Dorothy says all Deaves ex-wives, and his second daughter, were a�?devastateda�? about the affair.

a�?Ita��s just awful ... I worry about the children,a�? she said.

Theya��re not alone.

The couple might have asked for respect and understanding, but their tale has shocked people, with bloggers around the world commenting on their case and some calling for the a�?creepya�? paira��s daughter to be a�?saveda�?.

Dorothy says it took her ages to get over learning about their sexual relationship in 2000 - after Deaves had gone with his daughter to Dubbo Zoo.

a�?I thought he had gone to console her, because of her marriage trouble, I didna��t think they would have sex,a�? she said this week.

a�?When they got back here he informed me it was the best sex he ever had!

a�?If that doesna��t degrade you I dona��t know what does. It is just awful.

a�?It was my second marriage, and you feel like ... well, you get a very poor opinion of yourself.a�?

Dorothy says its not true the pair had no contact until 2000.

a�?He definitely had contact with Jenny when he was married to Pam (his second wife), and she stayed with us for a week when we got married - until 2000 she stayed with us four times.a�?

SA Police are reportedly monitoring them.

And they are now investigating the convicted pair again, this time over an alleged payment to them by the Nine Network.

Under state law, convicted criminals cannot profit directly from their crime.

Hamish Thomson, the executive producer of 60 Minutes, says money was offered to the couple.

a�?We bought them some clothes and they might have to move town and we have offered to give them some money to cover the costs of their move, if that happens,a�? he told News Ltd this week.

a�?We bought them some clothes because they are very poor.

a�?We literally bought them clothes for filming, from Target.a�?


In court its always "His word against her word" and with out any proof, goes no where. I am in a divorce case, and my wife is defiantly restricting / preventing access of me to my child. She will only let me come over to her house and visit supervised by her, for one hour, when convient to her, once or twice a week. I am being treated like I am a molester/abuser. I am being raped of my rights as a father. My daughter is 3, and I was a stay at home dad for the first year of her life. I have done nothing wrong ethicly, morally or legally. Our marriage has broken down beyond recovery. Although she may be mad at me, don't take it out on our daughter. No one belives that she would do such a thing. Family calls me a jerk for even accussing her of doing such.Her word against mine. But I have proof. I record the phone conversations, showing how bad the emotional abuse is to me and my daughter.I have proof that there is emotional harm being done, and that I cant see her but yet I can't use it??


hi few years back i had some money in the bank $63,000.My mum took me to the bank saying she needed some help financially.So i decided to help her as i really love her and what would any daughter would do.now after a while i asked her back for the money,she doesnt want to give me back.my father left the money for me.i got married recently and i had no choice but to do only court marriage as i had no money.my mother did not attend my wedding.now i am pregnant i need the money too to buy some baby stuff and in a year i wish to buy a house.my husband is helping at the moment to cope with the financial stress and my in laws.i tried talking to my mum nicely.she even took my jewels which belonged to me which my grandmother had given me.my mum took my bank passbook,passport and ID i only got it back when i was 21 that is too when the police told her too as it was illegal to hold one's passport and ID in my country when the person reached 18 and above.Please Help.what should i do????
i really love her after my dad passed away so i agreed in everything..i feel like i am a child who is begging for love and my mum is just making use of me...


I've heard Marriage is only supposed to be done bi a man and a women!
Does that mean a Man could marry his sister legally?
Does that mean a mother could marry her son after he was of age?
Does that mean a Father could marry his Daughter after she came of age?
I know this is wrong in the eye's of God, and no i would not do any of the above questions myself!
But legally some one could if they really wanted to, right!
But same sex marriages are against the law! I'm Bi but I would not marry a guy! I've been married once and i would prefer never to do it again!
I just wanted to ask this question!
The laws in this country are slanted towards whats ethical, not towards whats good for its citizens!
Seatbelt laws are just a way to make money! Otherwise motorcycles should be outlawed as un safe!
Cannibas doesn't impair your ability to drive, but its illegal while Alcohol kills 1000's every year!
I'm sorry for all who have taken offense to some of my ramblings! Bless You!




















Bi!
stirring, stirring, stirring


In hindu community why is it illegal that a boy cannot marry his father's brother's daughter OR any girl with the same dynasty name where has he can marry his mother's brother's daughter which seems to be much more closer blood relation and should be considered as brother-sister.


My wife and her parents are restricting me to meet my 10 month old daughter,Wife has very short temper and fights on small issues and visits her parents house for months avoiding access to my child,We are at very good terms for almost 90% time but rest 10% is getting worse day by day leading to physical abuse nowadays,she is too possessive. I dona��t want to go for divorce but they are not cooperating at all,Now she has went for marriage of her brother for at least one month and restricting me to meet my daughter and bring her home for at least 2 times a week, can i file any police complaint for that?,Do father has any legal provision for that in india?.I dont want to adopt any illegal ways. Pls can u help me?


I have been with the same man for the last 8 years. We got married 3 1/2 years ago and now I don't love him like I use to and I want out of this marriage. I didn't just decide one day that I don't love him anymore, I'm just tired of his "habits" and the fact that he won't stop doing some of the things that he does. He does illegal things and won't stop. I've asked him and even begged him to stop, but he just slowed down and tries to do these things in a way that isn't as obvious. We have a daughter and I can't see myself raising her in the time of environment that he is drawn to. I'm really close with his family and I think they are the reason why I've stuck with him for so long. He was doing these same things before we got married, but I thought that he would grow up and change once he became a husband and father. He has told me that I am rushing him to change and that I need to give him time. I feel like I've given him enough time to change. What should I do?


If the bible is to be believed and the whole human race was started by Adam and Eve, how did they procreate? Father and Mother, Son and Mother, Father and Daughter, Daughter and Son? this would make us all related at some level, would this make the whole concpt of marriage and relationships illegal by the way of incest?


I am desparate. My ex is causing me much grief at the moment and i will lose the little security that is legally mine but that my ex initially under handedly stole then kept hidden somewhere. I am certain i have a good case against my credit union. My ex,s friend worked there when they made the illegal transaction. My ex left the family home with most our accumalted possessions, 7 years ago. The reason this legal action has taken so long to act upon is basically - I lost the plot in a big way. Whereas I was practical & accepting of the whole separation issue. It was he {and his family's] unneccessary bittrly venomuos attacks made against me - but worse was what they did to my daughter. [Ex is not her biological father though often spoke of adopting her] I discovered the truth of my marriage, I got physically ill & lost job. many failed jobs, Now deeply depressed. marriage is sacred & my daughter my highest priorty. I failed her I let evil in our home I only want what is mine & hers hel

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